God, I pray she is Bipolar and we have hope. Because if she is Narcissistic we have no hope. After tonight I am just not sure.
I owe our cuss jar quite a few quarters tonight for the 4 letter words that have escaped my mouth directed at my husband's ex. Saying I am angry would be an understatement. My husband and step-son had an agreement that he would call my step-son tonight. I had a sick feeling this would go south when my husband came home on Monday from dropping him off and said that he and my step-son had talked about this. I have hoped for the best since Monday though. We even emailed letting her know the call was coming in weekly report we send her every Monday. My husband called a little before 6 and had to leave voice-mail. At a little before 8 she texted him saying that my step-son did not want to talk to him. (Amazing how her texting suddenly worked, when my step-son was in ER for 4 hours and she called only afterwards, only because she didn't have the money for the medication, she claimed she didn't have texting) I should have just gone and grabbed the cuss jar when I read the text from her as the words just came flying "THAT MANIPULATIVE B*&%!"
My husband and I took a moment to calm down, then my husband called and asked to speak with my step-son. This is where I really get pissed. She told my husband he couldn't speak with his son that his son did not want to speak with him. My husband told her to just put him on the phone that he needed to speak with him. She then had her boyfriend act like a child in the back ground saying "I don't want to speak with my daddy. Don't make me speak to my daddy." My step son NEVER says "daddy." I have known my husband for more than 3 years and my step-son has never called him "daddy" it is ALWAYS dad. My husband said that the voice didn't even sound right, that it even sounded like his ex's boyfriend. Any kudos the boyfriend had obtained and worked to get over the last few months with us were just lost.
My husband is furious.
I am about to finally be working again. With that comes health insurance for the whole family. I think counseling is a must. If she doesn't want to participate that will be on her.
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